I apologize to @anonymous44 for being hostile / uncharitable towards him.
I agree that it’s really not OK. I will strictly observe this rule in the future.
Some of the other stuff in this thread also triggered me, in a way that I consciously noticed, and to an even greater extent than you’d probably guess based on my posts alone.
I’m going to take a break from CF for two weeks, partly because of this and partly because I have a lot of work-related things going on right now.