# Dface's Topic about Self-Help Books He's Reading **URL:** https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/t/dfaces-topic-about-self-help-books-hes-reading/1941 **Category:** Other **Created:** [July 14, 2024, 12:18am UTC](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/t/dfaces-topic-about-self-help-books-hes-reading/1941 "2024-07-14T00:18:17Z") **Posts on this page:** 1 **Showing post:** 93
### Author: ![ActiveMind](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/user_avatar/discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/activemind/32/5560_2.png) [@ActiveMind](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/u/ActiveMind) #### Post date: [February 15, 2025, 2:27am UTC](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/t/dfaces-topic-about-self-help-books-hes-reading/1941/93 "2025-02-15T02:27:53Z")
> [@Dface](#): > > I don’t know how to word my post and have somebody care about it. > [@Dface](#): > > Idea sounded good on paper but writing it down sounds stupid I’ve come to accept this more: > [@Framework And Debate Psychology](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/t/framework-and-debate-psychology/1987/26): > > Sometimes I worry that I write unnecessary and dumb/obvious stuff that will get ignored and only clutters up the conversation. But then I get long and great replies; like to this quote. So in general I think it’s better to post more of what I think. > > I think I’ve changed my psychology to accept more what my immediate thoughts are. Not that I only reply with what my immediate thoughts are. If I think there are problems with my immediate thoughts, I’ll think more about them and try to think of criticisms. But when I can’t think of anything better I just accept that this is the best I have. And I will often post those immediate thoughts if I couldn’t think of something better, even if I think they weren’t very good. I think it’s good because then I can get criticism and actually get some good ideas instead of only having the bad ideas. I had to shift my mindset to care more about making progress and less about sounding smart. --- _[View the full topic](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/t/dfaces-topic-about-self-help-books-hes-reading/1941)._