# Discussion with helpful anonymous critic

**URL:** https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/t/discussion-with-helpful-anonymous-critic/1846
**Category:** Unbounded
**Tags:** learning
**Created:** [July 5, 2023, 12:21am UTC](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/t/discussion-with-helpful-anonymous-critic/1846 "2023-07-05T00:21:11Z")
**Posts on this page:** 9
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### Author: ![S\_Emiya](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/s/cdc98d/32.png) [@S\_Emiya](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/u/S_Emiya)
#### Post date: [July 5, 2023, 12:21am UTC](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/t/discussion-with-helpful-anonymous-critic/1846/1 "2023-07-05T00:21:11Z")

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**Topic Summary:** Address criticism brought up in the comments of Elliot’s post “Todo Lists Delegate Work Away From Your Conscious Mind”

**Goal:** come to a resolution of the issue

**CF relevance:** resolving disagreement

\*\*Do you want unbounded criticism? yes

> [@Todo Lists Delegate Work Away From Your Conscious Mind](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/t/todo-lists-delegate-work-away-from-your-conscious-mind/1843/5):
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> Your post was a reply to someone, not a stand alone article. So in that case, “you” is read as referring to _the person you are replying to_, not some general reader.

That’s a good distinction to point out, thank you.

> [@Todo Lists Delegate Work Away From Your Conscious Mind](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/t/todo-lists-delegate-work-away-from-your-conscious-mind/1843/5):
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> If you were trying to write a stand-alone article and address things to “the reader”, you should have written a stand-alone article and put it on a blog or posted it in its own thread.

My first post on this forum was written as a stand-alone and posted in the unbounded section. Elliot ended up moving my post into the comment section of the relevant article. This gave me the impression that if I want to post about an article that Elliot wrote, I should post about it in the comments of that article.

At the same time, Elliot recently had to move one of my replies to the “off topic” section. And now you’re telling me that my “todo lists are bad” post wasn’t on topic either. Seems like I’m repeatedly making an error on this issue.

I checked the site FAQ to see if it had some guidelines to explain when posts are considered on/off topic.

The guideline I saw in the FAQ was:

“Rather than taking an existing topic in a radically different direction, use Reply as a Linked Topic.”

I also noted that the original post was in a specific category of the forum:

Elliot Temple - Discuss Elliot Temple’s articles and ideas.

That sounds like there might be stricter guidelines regarding replies. And that the replies should exclusively discuss Elliot’s ideas. But there isn’t a lot of detail in the about section:

> [@About the Elliot Temple category](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/t/about-the-elliot-temple-category/40):
>
> Discuss Elliot Temple’s articles and ideas. New articles from [Critical Fallibilism](https://criticalfallibilism.com) are automatically posted here.

It’s not clear to me how to determine when a post will take a topic in a “radically different direction”.

For example, I think Elliot’s post was about the benefits of offloading mental work from your mind. And how todo lists are a tool you can use to offload mental work.

I wanted to point out a flaw in todo lists (as Elliot described them): they don’t take into account the time component of a task. I tried to provide an alternative that helps you remember tasks and lets you offload the time component of those tasks. So that you can achieve more of the benefits that Elliot talked about.

That seems like a related discussion to me.

Your original criticism said:

> [@Todo Lists Delegate Work Away From Your Conscious Mind](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/t/todo-lists-delegate-work-away-from-your-conscious-mind/1843/3):
>
> Instead of engaging with that idea, you seem to be implicitly agreeing with it, while framing it as a disagreement because you are going into details that were beyond the scope of his article.

That doesn’t sound like taking the topic in a radically different direction, to me. The scope of the article was offloading mental work from your mind, and I was providing an alternative method for offloading mental work from your mind.

> [@Todo Lists Delegate Work Away From Your Conscious Mind](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/t/todo-lists-delegate-work-away-from-your-conscious-mind/1843/5):
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> The point of Elliot’s article was about offloading work from your mind. It wasn’t an article about whether to do lists are better than calendars, or what different types of to do list apps or systems are best.

My point was that calendars are better for offloading work from your mind than todo lists.

> [@Todo Lists Delegate Work Away From Your Conscious Mind](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/t/todo-lists-delegate-work-away-from-your-conscious-mind/1843/5):
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> You are trying to write out your _own_ ideas about what you think is best. You weren’t engaging with or arguing with the actual point of the article.

Is criticizing and providing an alternative not “engaging with”? Or maybe you think I didn’t provide a decisive criticism? Or that the post wasn’t about todo lists, and that by criticizing todo lists I was engaging with the article in bad faith?

Could you explain more why you think my reply took the topic in a radically different direction?

> [@Todo Lists Delegate Work Away From Your Conscious Mind](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/t/todo-lists-delegate-work-away-from-your-conscious-mind/1843/5):
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> If you are using your calendar to write down tasks that you want to do, that is a type of to do list. To do lists can have time allocation and still be to do lists. Adding time allocation doesn’t make it a different type of thing. You can even write specific times on to do tasks in a standard to do list app.

I think the important part is allocating the time required to complete the task. You can call it a schedule, or a todo list with specific times and dates. The alternative is to keep the scheduling, time allocations, deadlines, etc. all in your mind, which I think adds a lot of additional mental work.

> [@Todo Lists Delegate Work Away From Your Conscious Mind](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/t/todo-lists-delegate-work-away-from-your-conscious-mind/1843/5):
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> That is very different than your original opening sentence:

> [@Todo Lists Delegate Work Away From Your Conscious Mind](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/t/todo-lists-delegate-work-away-from-your-conscious-mind/1843/5):
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> You said that todo lists are bad, and that Elliot should stop using them. I assumed that you meant he should stop using them **at all, ever, for anything**. Otherwise, why would you even say that? You don’t know anything about his problem situation, what he uses to do lists for, how often he uses them, or whether he uses a calendar. So why would you specifically tell him to **stop** using to do lists and that they are bad unless you meant that he should **never** use them?

I’m sorry that I wasn’t clear. I did mean that people should stop using todo lists. Here’s the example I gave:

> [@Todo Lists Delegate Work Away From Your Conscious Mind](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/t/todo-lists-delegate-work-away-from-your-conscious-mind/1843/2):
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> Keeping a short term list of items that need to be scheduled is okay, as long as you schedule them asap. And then throw out the todo list.

Collecting tasks to be scheduled at the end of the day is different than a todo list. First, you should never expect any of those tasks to get done while they’re on the list. You never actively check the list. You add tasks, but during the day it’s a black box that you don’t look inside. You can have a daily session booked in your calendar to schedule new tasks. That would be the only time you look inside the “black box” and move all the tasks into your schedule.

It is a list, but not really a traditional “todo” list. I could have made that more clear in my original post, sorry.

(I also notice I wrote the above in second person. Does it come off as pushy to you? I didn’t mean it to sound like I’m trying to lecture you and personally tell you what to do.)

> [@Todo Lists Delegate Work Away From Your Conscious Mind](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/t/todo-lists-delegate-work-away-from-your-conscious-mind/1843/5):
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> Every one of those tips also applies to calendars used as task lists or to do lists.

That wasn’t the original issue you brought up though. I believe this was your original criticism:

> [@Todo Lists Delegate Work Away From Your Conscious Mind](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/t/todo-lists-delegate-work-away-from-your-conscious-mind/1843/3):
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> But that isn’t what Elliot’s article was about. He wasn’t talking about exactly what type of to do list system people should use. He was just talking about the _general_ idea of writing down your tasks, and offloading that from your own brain, instead of _not writing them down at all_.

So I shared some examples of how I thought the article was partly about todo lists:

> [@Todo Lists Delegate Work Away From Your Conscious Mind](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/t/todo-lists-delegate-work-away-from-your-conscious-mind/1843/4):
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> I think the article was partly about how to use todo lists and the benefits they can give. There are a lot of tips specifically for using todo lists:

I’m not sure how you saying the tips are relevant to both calendars and todo lists relates back to your original criticism.

> [@Todo Lists Delegate Work Away From Your Conscious Mind](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/t/todo-lists-delegate-work-away-from-your-conscious-mind/1843/5):
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> They are. So are calendars. Neither one of those things alone is a _complete solution_ to offloading tasks.

What information do you think is missing from the schedule to make it complete? Once I’ve broken a task into components and scheduled them into my calendar I no longer have to think about the task at all (in my experience).

Thanks again for your feedback

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### Author: ![Elliot](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/user_avatar/discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/elliot/32/14_2.png) [@Elliot](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/u/Elliot)
#### Post date: [July 5, 2023, 1:59am UTC](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/t/discussion-with-helpful-anonymous-critic/1846/2 "2023-07-05T01:59:44Z")

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I’m writing this as a moderator.

> [@S\_Emiya](#):
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> My first post on this forum was written as a stand-alone and posted in the unbounded section. Elliot ended up moving my post into the comment section of the relevant article.

You’re breaking the [forum rules](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/faq), which say:

> Don’t write vague references like “what I said earlier” or “the article’s argument about this issue”.

Give the link to the post you’re talking about.

Your post also breaks the [forum rules for topic titles](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/faq#titles).

> [@S\_Emiya](#):
>
> I wanted to point out a flaw in todo lists (as Elliot described them):

This is also a vague reference which violates the forum rules. Quote my description that you’re referring to.

Your post also reads as fairly hostile and tilted, and you aren’t trying to use any particular CF idea or method (such as trees, grammar analysis, decisive arguments, debate methodology, or breakpoints). It’d be better to be friendly and to try to explicitly use at least one CF idea; otherwise you’re basically just posting regular arguments like one would read at other forums, and aren’t making progress on learning to use CF ideas.

> [@S\_Emiya](#):
>
> “Rather than taking an existing topic in a radically different direction, use Reply as a Linked Topic.”

Use block quote formatting for block quotes (a paragraph or more that is entirely a quote). Don’t use inline quotes.

You were [already warned about your quoting](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/t/creative-thinking-and-gender-identity/522/24) and I even explained how to quote to you:

> For how to quote, type “\>”, use the quote button, or see the quoting section at [Forum Features Guide](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/t/forum-features-guide/119)

You didn’t follow those instructions for this quote as you should have.

In that warning, I also wrote:

> Quoting issues are one of the few things that are actively policed at this forum (and I don’t like having to waste time on them, but inaccurate or misleading quotes are worse). Please use the post preview feature since it should be pretty easy to see visually that it didn’t come out right.

Writing all this is a bunch of work. You’re wasting my time again. **Next time you’ll receive a temporary ban.** As you know, there is no moderator team here happy to micromanage you or keep giving you reminders. In order to protect my time, I wrote down information about how to use the forum; I don’t want to repeat myself; members need to take responsibility for posting correctly enough that I don’t need to intervene.

Also, using the post preview feature, as I mentioned, you would have probably have noticed this formatting error:

> [@S\_Emiya](#):
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> \*\*Do you want unbounded criticism? yes

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### Author: ![S\_Emiya](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/s/cdc98d/32.png) [@S\_Emiya](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/u/S_Emiya)
#### Post date: [July 5, 2023, 2:43pm UTC](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/t/discussion-with-helpful-anonymous-critic/1846/3 "2023-07-05T14:43:45Z")

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Thanks so much for this very helpful feedback Elliot. I’m sorry that my carelessness ended up requiring moderator action. I have a few clarifying comments and questions, if you don’t mind.

> [@Elliot](#):
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> Give the link to the post you’re talking about.

The original (standalone) post doesn’t exist anymore. I was going to quote this comment that you made:

> [@(Classical) Liberalism \[CF Article\]](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/t/classical-liberalism-cf-article/158/3):
>
> PS I moved this to the existing topic about the article.

When I tried to quote it from the original thread it gave me the warning shown here:

 ![Screenshot 2023-07-05 at 8.52.15 AM](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/uploads/default/original/2X/1/19cfc839d702351abb52ef7bb2c671247fdbf7aa.png)

This gave me the impression that I shouldn’t quote your comment from the really old post. When I actually copy and pasted the quote into _this_ comment, I didn’t get the warning. But no red circle shows up beside your name. I can’t tell without making the post, but I don’t think someone will be able to click the comment and be linked to the original thread.

(EDIT: no red circle shows up in the post preview, but it does show up in the actual post like a regular quote. Does that mean everyone in the comment chain got notified? Is that a bad thing we should avoid?)

I could have linked the article with the entire comment section, but that also seems like it would be a vague reference. This is the original article:

> [@(Classical) Liberalism \[CF Article\]](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/t/classical-liberalism-cf-article/158):
>

There are a decent number of comments here and it would be hard to find the specific line I was referencing.

In the future I will quote the comment (which was my initial instinct) and also link the thread, if necessary.

> [@Elliot](#):
>
> Your post also breaks the [forum rules for topic titles](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/faq#titles).

I chose the title “Discussion with helpful anonymous critic” because I wanted to tell readers it was a post about a person who (helpfully) criticized something I wrote. I avoided putting additional information about todo lists and calendars because I didn’t want that to be the focus of the thread. I wanted the focus to be on the critic and their criticism.

I considered putting some of the criticism into the title, but then I realized there were multiple issues brought up. “Criticism of using second person in a post reply” would leave out the issue about whether posts were on/off topic, etc.

Do you think it would have been better to make specific posts with clear titles for each separate issue? I tried to go with a single thread with a more generic title to make the discussion easier to follow.

Another title I considered was “Paths Forward practice with anonymous critic”. I liked this one more, but I realized I didn’t know enough about Paths Forward (and I’m sure it shows).

> [@Elliot](#):
>
> This is also a vague reference which violates the forum rules. Quote my description that you’re referring to.

Would it have been okay if I wrote it this way? (I put it in a block quote for reading clarity)

> It’s not clear to me how to determine when a post will take a topic in a “radically different direction”.
> 
> For example, I think Elliot’s post was about the benefits of offloading mental work from your mind. And how todo lists are a tool you can use to offload mental work.
> 
> I wanted to point out a flaw that I thought I saw in Elliot’s description of todo lists. I tried to provide an alternative to todo lists that addresses that flaw. So that you could achieve more of the benefits that Elliot talked about.
> 
> For reference, you can see Elliot’s post and my comment here: [Todo Lists Delegate Work Away From Your Conscious Mind](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/t/todo-lists-delegate-work-away-from-your-conscious-mind/1843)

The goal of this comment was only to show my thought process around whether the post was on/off topic. The way I phrased it originally was misleading and vague. It sounded like you didn’t talk at all about time allocation in your post, which wasn’t accurate.

> Your post also reads as fairly hostile and tilted

I find this to be a vague criticism. Could you give some examples of hostile quotes? What exactly do you mean by tilted? I associate that term with losing in gambling (or maybe a video game) and then acting irrationally due to your loss.

Here are some examples of what I find to be friendly and polite comments from my post:

> [@S\_Emiya](#):
>
> That’s a good distinction to point out, thank you.

Here I apologize for the lack of clarity in my explanation:

> [@S\_Emiya](#):
>
> I’m sorry that I wasn’t clear.

Here I ask for advice because I value their opinion, and I don’t want to come across as pushy:

> [@S\_Emiya](#):
>
> (I also notice I wrote the above in second person. Does it come off as pushy to you? I didn’t mean it to sound like I’m trying to lecture you and personally tell you what to do.)

Even in the title of the post I made sure to note the critic was helpful.

> [@Elliot](#):
>
> It’d be better to be friendly and to try to explicitly use at least one CF idea; otherwise you’re basically just posting regular arguments like one would read at other forums, and aren’t making progress on learning to use CF ideas.

I did want to use Paths Forward. But I also didn’t want to have to read a bunch before I could make a reply. I have been criticized in the past for leaving long gaps between my replies.

@anonymous90 would you be interested in practicing Paths Forward with me in this discussion? I think we’re covering a lot of criticisms at once, it might be more helpful to pick one and try to resolve it first?

> [@Elliot](#):
>
> Use block quote formatting for block quotes (a paragraph or more that is entirely a quote). Don’t use inline quotes.

To me this sounds like I should use block quotes when the text is a paragraph (or longer) and is entirely a quote. Since my quote was just one sentence, would this rule still apply?

Also, I don’t see anything about paragraphs mentioned in the [FAQ](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/faq):

> Never misquote anyone. Due to risk of a typo, use copy/paste or the quote button instead of manually typing in quotes (unless it’s from paper or an audio recording, in which case you must state that it’s typed out by hand). Do not present a summary or paraphrase as a quote. There is zero lenience on this. A misquote is never close enough. This rule is enforced in an extremely picky, exacting, pedantic way. Expect moderator action if you violate this rule. You have been warned.
> 
> What about other uses of quotation marks, like fictional or hypothetical dialog, grouping words into a phrase, or scare quotes? Make sure they’re labelled or introduced in clear ways. If you use quotation marks and a reasonable reader _might_ think it’s an actual, exact or literal quote, then you’re misquoting. Any ambiguous uses of quotation marks, which could mislead a reasonable person, will be considered misquotes. If there is even one reasonable interpretation where you misquoted, then you’ve broken the rule, regardless of any other interpretations where you didn’t misquote.

> [@Elliot](#):
>
> Also, using the post preview feature, as I mentioned, you would have probably have noticed this formatting error:

I actually thought the \*\* was part of the template, sorry. I use the post preview every time I post =)

This is the original text from the template (asterisks were replaced with #):

> ##Do you want unbounded criticism? (A criticism is a reason that an idea decisively fails at a goal. Criticism can be about anything relevant to goal success, including methods, meta, context or tangents. If you think a line of discussion isn’t worth focusing attention on, that is a disagreement with the person who posted it, which can be discussed.)##

I selected all the text after the question mark and deleted it, accidentally deleting the last two asterisks.

Another option for the template could be:

> ##Do you want unbounded criticism?## (A criticism is a reason that an idea decisively fails at a goal. Criticism can be about anything relevant to goal success, including methods, meta, context or tangents. If you think a line of discussion isn’t worth focusing attention on, that is a disagreement with the person who posted it, which can be discussed.)

I think that would make it easier to notice the asterisks are there for formatting purposes. Also, I find it more readable when all the text in parentheses isn’t bolded:

> **Do you want unbounded criticism?** (A criticism is a reason that an idea decisively fails at a goal. Criticism can be about anything relevant to goal success, including methods, meta, context or tangents. If you think a line of discussion isn’t worth focusing attention on, that is a disagreement with the person who posted it, which can be discussed.)

Thanks again for your feedback. I really appreciate the work and effort you put into providing this forum.

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### Author: ![Elliot](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/user_avatar/discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/elliot/32/14_2.png) [@Elliot](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/u/Elliot)
#### Post date: [July 7, 2023, 2:02am UTC](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/t/discussion-with-helpful-anonymous-critic/1846/4 "2023-07-07T02:02:17Z")

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> [@S\_Emiya](#):
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> **My first post on this forum** was written as a stand-alone and posted in the unbounded section. Elliot ended up moving my post into the comment section of the relevant article. This gave me the impression that if I want to post about an article that Elliot wrote, I should post about it in the comments of that article.

(bold added)

> [@(Classical) Liberalism \[CF Article\]](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/t/classical-liberalism-cf-article/158/3):
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> > [@Elliot](#):
> >
> > Give the link to the post you’re talking about.
> 
> The original (standalone) post doesn’t exist anymore. I was going to quote this comment that you made:
> 
> > [@(Classical) Liberalism \[CF Article\]](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/t/classical-liberalism-cf-article/158/3):
> >
> > PS I moved this to the existing topic about the article.

[That](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/t/classical-liberalism-cf-article/158/2) wasn’t your [first post on the forum](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/t/limits-of-machine-learning/109/2). This kind of factually false statement isn’t OK at this forum.

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### Author: ![S\_Emiya](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/s/cdc98d/32.png) [@S\_Emiya](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/u/S_Emiya)
#### Post date: [July 7, 2023, 3:29am UTC](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/t/discussion-with-helpful-anonymous-critic/1846/5 "2023-07-07T03:29:57Z")

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I meant _post_ as in an original topic that I posted myself. I would call my other comments _replies_, not their own posts. I can see how that would be confusing and ambiguous though. It would have been more clear if I said my first _standalone post_.

My plan moving forward is to compile a list of errors I’ve already made while posting here. And to refer to that list each time I’m writing a comment. I don’t want to waste your time with unnecessary moderator action. And I would consider getting a temporary ban to be a huge personal failure on my part.

Thanks again for being so awesome.

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### Author: ![S\_Emiya](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/s/cdc98d/32.png) [@S\_Emiya](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/u/S_Emiya)
#### Post date: [July 7, 2023, 3:53am UTC](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/t/discussion-with-helpful-anonymous-critic/1846/6 "2023-07-07T03:53:30Z")

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> [@S\_Emiya](#):
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> It would have been more clear if I said my first _standalone post_.

I realized I actually did use the word stand-alone in my comment:

> [@S\_Emiya](#):
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> My first post on this forum was written as a stand-alone

That actually makes it more misleading than I remembered. It makes it sound like my first _comment_ on this forum was a stand-alone post. At the time I wrote it, I knew that my first comment on this forum _wasn’t_ a stand-alone post. I specifically went back and looked at my post history to check.

I’m not sure why I wrote it in such a misleading way. I could have easily said _one of my first posts_. I think I was assuming other people would use the same distinction between posts and replies that I was.

I will think more on how to add this error to my _known common errors list_.

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### Author: ![anonymous89](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/a/8491ac/32.png) [@anonymous89](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/u/anonymous89)
#### Post date: [July 7, 2023, 5:48am UTC](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/t/discussion-with-helpful-anonymous-critic/1846/7 "2023-07-07T05:48:30Z")

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Is English your first language?

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### Author: ![S\_Emiya](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/s/cdc98d/32.png) [@S\_Emiya](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/u/S_Emiya)
#### Post date: [July 7, 2023, 10:46pm UTC](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/t/discussion-with-helpful-anonymous-critic/1846/8 "2023-07-07T22:46:11Z")

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> [@S\_Emiya](#):
>
> I will think more on how to add this error to my _known common errors list_.

I think the error I will add to my list is _lying_.

I think that I _should have known_ my statement was ambiguous and misleading. I think I ignored the misleading wording because _I understood_ the meaning I intended. I checked my post history to make sure the meaning that _I understood_ was accurate. I assumed that people would ask me for clarification if they misunderstood my meaning. I think putting the burden on other people to clarify my ambiguous writing is dishonest and wrong.

I should have known that people could interpret the word _post_ to mean _comment_. That would lead them to believe something untrue because of my communication. I didn’t put enough effort into my comment to make sure it wasn’t ambiguous. Although I didn’t have dishonest _intentions_, I think I was still lying.

> [@S\_Emiya](#):
>
> I wanted to point out a flaw in todo lists (as Elliot described them): they don’t take into account the time component of a task.

I think this is another example of lying. My _intention_ was to discuss whether my post was on or off topic. My intention _wasn’t_ to make people believe something untrue about how Elliot described todo lists. Again though, I didn’t put enough effort into making sure my communication was clear and accurate. My intention wasn’t to deceive, but I was still _lying_.

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### Author: ![S\_Emiya](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/s/cdc98d/32.png) [@S\_Emiya](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/u/S_Emiya)
#### Post date: [July 7, 2023, 11:09pm UTC](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/t/discussion-with-helpful-anonymous-critic/1846/9 "2023-07-07T23:09:13Z")

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> [@anonymous89](#):
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> Is English your first language?

I’m not going to answer that question.

My guess is that your question is related to my comment about posts and replies:

> [@S\_Emiya](#):
>
> I meant _post_ as in an original topic that I posted myself. I would call my other comments _replies_, not their own posts.

Is that correct? Or is there another reason that you asked the question?

I wrote a clarifying explanation on my misunderstanding:

The only other forum I have participated in was Reddit. When someone makes a new post on Reddit they are usually referred to as the OP (original poster) of that post. People can write a reply to the post in the comments. I always thought of writing a comment as replying to a post, not making a post.

When I wanted to make a new post on Reddit I would use this button:

![Screenshot 2023-07-07 at 6.53.25 PM](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/uploads/default/original/2X/e/e2fdbd0aad81bf72dd85a5eb3b0e5312efd99a67.png)

Then I would see this disclaimer:

> You are submitting a text-based post. Speak your mind. A title is required, but expanding further in the text field is not. Beginning your title with “vote up if” is violation of intergalactic law.

One of the options when creating a new _post_ is to send _replies_ to my inbox:

 ![Screenshot 2023-07-07 at 7.02.28 PM](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/uploads/default/original/2X/3/31538e0df65b0e2198d5e3867edcebee61bdc94f.png)

Reddit keeps track of your submissions (what I think of as posts) separately from your comments:

![Screenshot 2023-07-07 at 7.00.50 PM](https://discuss.criticalfallibilism.com/uploads/default/original/2X/5/512296f83fc1330e652be60038e1f473a329e786.png)

I hope that clears up why I was confused on the distinction between _posts_ and _replies_.
