Gaslighting discussion (split from: Justin’s Miscellaneous Posts)

I’m considering trying to make a discussion tree of the gaslighting discussion posts with anonymous33 from this post to this post. It seemed like there were multiple issues with that part of the discussion and I think maybe a discussion tree would help me find and clarify them. I’m looking for feedback on whether that seems like a productive idea because I don’t think I’m capable of making a serious effort to make progress in that discussion without some positive feedback about a specific potential approach. This is due to my current highly pessimistic attitude regarding the possibility of my making progress in that discussion. I would also consider suggestions about other things to try, but I’m only really interested in fairly specific suggestions (so posts about general methods to use are not really what I’m interested in as they are not specific enough).