As written, this is a necessary but not sufficient condition for suffering: I don’t feel suffering when thinking about all the ways in which reality differs from my wishes. E.g. I wish I could magically flap my arms and fly like a bird on demand, but this doesn’t cause me to suffer.
My guess was that somehow this wish that I could fly isn’t active, but from the definition of active that you gave it’s not clear why this can’t be the case: It seems like I can load my desire to fly like a bird into the front of my mind.