Do you know the genders of OP and the partner?
I assumed the partner putting together the nursery was female and OP was male but the comments are all referring to OP as she or they and her partner as he. I found some comments asking about it (no replies). Here someone references her profile having an age (55) which makes me think that her bio mentioned her gender too maybe, but 55 years old would be odd for being pregnant. Also saw one top level comment suggesting a lesbian relationship.