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My fiance ārapedā me and idk what to do (Reddit)
Iāve been really contemplating over what to do and I donāt know if Iām overreacting so kinda looking for advice here.
A pattern Iāve seen is that many women question and doubt themselves after really bad behavior by men. They are socialized to put up with a lot. And this conflicts with the āitās just a few bad applesā defense: if the terrible male behavior was just a few outliers, then Iād expect widespread agreement that itās really bad, in which case there would be less self-doubt about it.
Also SA on Uber:
