I’ve chosen to do ‘write quick tiny reply’ learning activity. It is the easiest thing for me to do.
Here I will ask for solutions to some problems I’m having.
First one: Elliot recommended posting these replies especially to him. I took it to mean that I should post it to people better than me because the learning activity will work better. But most times when I post replies I get much more input than what I put in and then I feel like I am not participating similarly in the conversation. I’m not sure what the problem is here. Maybe it’s just the emotions I am feeling.
you asking for source makes me think I did something wrong. Did I misrepresent you or put words in your mouth or misquote you? Thinking that I might have done that makes me feel bad because this is one of most important rules here I think.
I don’t understand pressuring. I think I pressured you right now by talking about me feeling bad. Not pressuring someone is another main thing here as I understand it.
I figured out the problem. The problem is things not going according to my expectations. I expect that a tiny reply should get a tiny response.
A related problem I can think of is: I don’t know how this learning activity works. When I get a big response in reply to my tiny reply I find it hard to continue the conversation because I am not good at doing big conversations. So my learning activity of writing quick tiny replies stops. I get stuck.
Possible solution: Break down the big reply into the smallest part to which I can write a quick tiny reply.