The OP adds in the comments:
the surgeon told me that ovarian torsion is actually not that rare but it’s missed constantly because doctors assume women are exaggerating or it’s just gynecological pain that we should tolerate. she said she sees this ALL THE TIME
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1of7wbn/tw_boyfriend_crossed_a_sexual_boundary/
Based on the comment section, other men have behaved similarly and have escalated from there.