[intuitive reaction to post, not the comments]
Seems like there’s a huge double standard here.
OP acknowledges she dresses like a “floozy” (in the more SFW ones, too), posts it publicly online, implies that it’s extra okay when it’s an ad, uses the common excuse of “I’m comfortable in my own skin” even tho it’s acknowledged in a defensive way (so she’s not really 100% okay with it anyway, she has some subconscious aversion to her own behavior). Then gets upset when men in a relationship like her content (or “get [the] ick” at least).
So I think that on its own is problematic, but then:
It bugs me that men who have their wives heavily featured in their own online content seem to come out of the woodwork to engage with posts that could be perceived as a little more risqué- or an innocent swimsuit photo at the pool in the summertime- but don’t really engage with my more innocuous content. Maybe that Vogue article was right… I’d be grossed out if that were my husband.
So it’s okay for women to be grossed out about something like that, but it’s not okay for men to be grossed out that their gf/wife posts or did post that kind of thing? (I know OP isn’t making that point specifically, but pushing acceptance of floozy-behavior is common enough in TwoX and similar communities)
Personally married men shouldn’t be using instagram for that, and women shouldn’t be posting it. If some women want to, whatever it’s their life, but it’s hypocritical to act like that’s okay and at the same time argue that it’s immoral for most men to consume that content.