Hey, I just wanted to bring this topic back up since I recently came across a relevant analysis.
Back when you posted this, I did reply with some issues with this claim — such as the fact that at least one major study that started this claim was a poll of lifetime abuse, and so e.g. would include IPV experienced by a lesbian who was previously in a relationship with an abusive man.
I do not think you replied to that so I don’t know if you saw it. But regardless, I thought this was relevant to that topic and might be interesting (either to you, or to anyone who read that discussion and was undecided):